6 Tips to Meet Your Love This Christmas
Although Christmas is not focused on romantic relationships like Valentine’s Day, there is no doubt that it is a pretty emotional time of the year. Everybody wants to have a feeling of warmth, have kisses under the mistletoe, and drink eggnog with a loved one.
Even if you already have stable romantic relationships online, now it’s the time to take it to the next level. So, how to make your first date successful and spend Christmas as a couple?
This is your chance to say yes to all opportunities, here are our tips to help you.
Before going on a date, make sure that you eliminate all nerves related to dating. If a 20-minute walk or a workout at the gym helps you keep a cold head, you are not alone. You have to be cool and confident. According to Olivia Fox-Cabane, author of The Charisma Myth ”James Bond doesn’t plead, smile or fidget.
You never see his knee bouncing or hands fidgeting. He speaks slowly and deliberately and is rarely rushed. These are all very charismatic qualities. He has the unflinching eye contact of a predator — and this increases the chance women will fall in love with him. 007 doesn’t gush over girls and show his feelings. He keeps them guessing and uncertainty increases attraction. Bond doesn’t smile much and this too makes him sexy because happiness isn’t alluring in men. His body language is commanding and he’s not afraid to take up space, which is very masculine and appealing. 007 doesn’t ramble on and this too is smooth. Bond never slouches. Good posture increases confidence, feelings of power and makes you physically tougher. (Which works out well when you want to look classy in your tuxedo while battling machete wielding evil minions.).”
2. Don’t overthink
Focus on your attitude and you will notice how your body language is changing. Just imagine if you always think about things like, whether your hands are sweating or fidgeting, whether you bite your lips, or your speech is too fast. Such thoughts can drive you crazy. Instead, as Fox-Cabane explains, stop monitoring every part of your body and fixate on the overall feeling. Get yourself into the cool mental zone and you will get the desired body language.
3. Meet at some cozy and familiar place
There is no need to arrange your zero-date at a posh restaurant. Cafe is a perfect venue for a first date after meeting online. A cup of excellent coffee with gingerbread cookies will make you closer to each other. During a pressure-free coffee thing, you can see how well you hit it off.
Another option is to visit a Christmas market, where you both can have a great time while eating roasted chestnuts, drinking hot apple cider or eggnog. Romantic Christmas music and atmosphere of joy will help you both enjoy the date while you are strolling outside with a person you like.
4. Keep a little small talk
Remember that first date should be commitment-free, so keep a conversation light. Avoid provoking political debates and stories about your exes. Dating should be relaxed. In case you both are run out of conversation topics, prepare several ice-breaking questions.
The main thing of any date is to have fun. Even if it is the worst coffee you’ve ever tried and the food is awful, don’t complain. If a girl has chosen the dating venue, thank her and mention that she has a great taste.
6. Set up a second date
If your zero-date has been a success, don’t wait any minute and set up a second one. Think about more intimate things. You can decorate a Christmas tree together. It may seem an obvious activity, but it can not only make you closer to each other but also be a perfect romantic date. Imagine a soft Christmas music, hot chocolate, dim light... pure romance. And rest assured, such date will help you win her heart.
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